Dealing with Social Anxiety Disorder?

Sometimes, when I am not prepared meeting with other people like when I'm not that tidy with my get-up, I feel inferiority complex, I can't do what I want to do. I'm obese but it's not that obvious. Can my social anxiety caused by my fatness? I've been fat since I was a child, but, thank God I'm getting slimmer now. I go to gym four times a week, and I'm conscious about what I am eating. Can I treat myself from social anxiety? I know what the problem is, and I am now solving it---- is it right? Can I deal with social anxiety by myself? My sister said that "It's just in the head." I'm 14, and a girl, some of my classmates tease me like "Never been kissed, never been touched---totally damaged." Ouch, but I don't care----- I don't like getting into relationships right now, but guys I tell you----- that girl maybe same as my size, and she has no pimples, she thinks she's better than me, prettier than me, but I just don't give a damn hehe... What do you think? I have exact 50% Social Phobia

Dealing with Social Anxiety Disorder?
i dont know if you can do it ALL on your own because in order to be completely comfortable with the way you are can't be changed by altering your physical appearance.. you have to try to change the way you think. so what if youre not perfect? no one is and thats the hardest thing you'll have to overcome. even though your peers are petty and people will tell you it doesnt matter what they think, it will affect you. kids are cruel and its not that much better when you get older you just have to surround yourself with people that do accept you for who you are
Reply:Yes I know where you are coming form I got it too


... ..


I mess up the words I say and it is a mess sometimes


.. ..


What I so in advance is tell them


.. ..


I got this problem bla bla bla you fill in the words and then


.. ..


I limit the problem to almost nothing cause


.. ..


They now know what my problem is and no body pays attention when I get to that one word that kind of gets stuck


.. ..


One of them will just say it so I can continue with what I was trying to say
Reply:You're on your way to social freedom. Maybe it is because of your weight problem, but it's okay. I'm dealing with the same thing, sort of. But I have to learn to love myself no matter what. Don't worry. Plus there are PLENTY of guys who like bigger girls anyways. Don't worry.
Reply:You can treat it by yourself. It's not necessarily caused by your weight, it's more just general insecurity. For example, if your weight wasn't an issue, you may find something else to be worried about. You sound like you're going in the right direction though, the most important thing is to be strong in who you are.
Reply:yes the more you try the better you get at something





I have a bad anxiety disorder and I didn't really learn to fully communicate with people until I was about 21