In my girlscout troop there are 8 girls. We've known each other for 10 years. Ages 14-16 Well two girls (sisters) are not very social or fortunate in the looks department. They don't get out often, and are pretty much party-poopers. Us chickas, on the other hand, are loud and social, cute girls, who are fortunate to have what we do.
Well the other girls put us down. Analyzing everything we say so it sounds less exciting, fun, etc. They claim we are boring (no way) and when we invite them over they say "we bore them." I'm just going to say it: They're unattractive and mean, were cute and fun.
What do we do? They're constantly mean and complain, no matter what.
HELP!
Non-Social Girls Mixed With Social Butterflies?
They are probably mean to you because they think you're up to something.
And honestly, it sounds a little bit like the Carrie situation. Maybe that movie was before your time butttt
Just sounds like you need to be yourself, and let them do their thing too. Not everyone can be friends, humans just don't work that way.
Reply:Sounds like the only thing they enjoy is putting you down. If they're so bored with you, why not just stop trying to socialize with them outside of scout meetings? If they ask why you stopped inviting them over, you can always say you decided to stop forcing your boring company on them!
Reply:These girls are obviously jealous of you and your friends. They don't have the luxuries or looks that your fortunate to have. By putting you down and calling your friends boring, their trying to make themselves feel better. They may not accept your invites to places because they don't think they'll fit in. They may feel like their not fun or outgoing enough. All in all, these girls envy you. Continue to be nice to them and hopefully they'll soon realize that your sincere and you want to be on good terms with them.
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