Being anti-social?

well I'm a person who has no friends in real life and well I was wondering does being anti-social last forever?





I've been anti-social ever since high school.





Now that I'm out of high school and going to college I'm still going to be anti-social.





Could I be this way into my mid 30's and later 40's?





I'm 19 year old guy and thats how I see my future.





This is true right?





This is normal right?





I like to think that it is.

Being anti-social?
Well, if you feel ur anit-spcial then you are. If ur not ready/willing ot go out there then you will be anti-social. But if you want to change that you can. Its normal to feel anti-social but its not something that will stay with you forever unless youlet it. but that's just my opinion hun. hope this helped.
Reply:no I was much the same but I read and old book my dad had "how to win friends and influence people"


I taught me how to stop thinking of myself and have a sincere apreciation for my fellow human being and see the good in everyone
Reply:In my oppinion it isn't normal. I mean, having to deal with people is a part of life. Once you get a job and grow up, you are going to be forced to interact with different people. You need social skills to basically lead a fairly normal life. It is one thing to not want any friends, but not having any friends might lead to you not being able to interact with humans like a normal person.
Reply:i guess it's 'normal', because a lottttt of people are antisocial


but you should really do something about it


that's no way to live your life


think about it


[obviously, i know you've thought about it, but you know what i mean...]
Reply:Don't confuse being anti-social with being unsocial. Anti-social means acting agressively towards people, hurting people, etc. Unsocial simply means avoiding people, being shy or awkward with people. You are probably UNsocial, not ANTI-social.





This will change as you get older. Don't worry about it. Just try to be kind to everybody, even if you don't want to get close to them.
Reply:Ok, I know I won't get "Best Answer" for that because my answer is kind of unrelated.





You being anti-social is a reaction, a symptom.





What is the cause behind that? Find this out and you will understand yourself better and act accordingly.





All the best.
Reply:It seems to be normal for you and yes, it can last for a long time.