I had the best of friends for 7 years but this year when i walked into my first day of high school they all hated me, i guess they decided i wasn't cool enough or something.
I was still friendly with some other friends for a couple months but they gradually started to talk to me less and less, now i have no friends or social skills, i mix up my words, can never think of anything to say when people talk to me, especially not anything funny or charming, i sit in the library at lunch since no one will talk to me, its humiliating!
Even when i talk to people, they usually ignore me. During p.e when some of the kids mess up they laugh and so does everyone else, not with me, no one ever laughs, its soo embarrasing! Now even if i do think of something funny to say, i'm the freak with no friends and no one laughs, I need to get my social skills back, i have to last 3 more years with these people and i don't want to be known as the social reject and would like some friends.
Help!! Social problems?
Okay, first, don't let them start to make you feel like a freak, ever. You're different, shy, they're all obviously just listening to one another, and not thinking with their own brains. Honestly, why would you want to be-friend them? Wait until someone comes a long that doesn't listen to other people's opinions as means of creating their own. Maybe, if there is someone in the library who is also sitting a lone. Don't be harsh on yourself, you sound interesting, and you're going to be okay. Just take it slow and be strong.
Reply:aw, hang in there....try to find that one person that you can be socail around. I am sure that there are other girls who feel just like you!! You could be a good role model for them by being brave and putting yourself out there! If you live in LA ill be your friend!!! Good Luck Love!!! STAY STRONG, IT WILL GET BETTER!
Reply:well since this school year is almost over... just hang in there... but when next year comes... befriend the new kids!!!
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